I'm not big on New Year's Resolutions, although I was thinking today that there is one that crossed my mind that is actually worth trying to carry out. I think I need to try and pay closer attention. To what? you ask... Well,...anything! My children, and what it is that they are
really saying. My husband, my students,...myself. This topic crossed my mind today as
I noticed that
nobody noticed my new glasses. Now, I am not trying to be completely self-absorbed thinking that the whole world should notice my new glasses, on the contrary. It's just that today I noticed that one of my students
didn't have his glasses on, so I asked him, "Did you get contacts?" He gave his sweet, modest smile and nodded. I told him he looked very nice. I think he really appreciated the fact that I noticed. This is what prompted me to think about noticing things in the first place.
As I picked up my children from daycare, I was zipping Jack's coat as another dad was coming in to pick up his daughter. In the "drop-off area" there is a calendar hung that has pictures of the children from daycare. The dad asked his little girl, "Who's that?" as he pointed to a picture of his smiling child. She responded with, "Daddy!" He corrected her saying, "No, silly, that's you!" But what I don't think he understood is that she thought he said, "Who's hat?" Because she was wearing her daddy's hat in the picture. So, she was right on, and probably confused after the fact.
Obviously, I am trying to be the best person I can be, but I think we all need to step outside ourselves for a little while and get some perspective.
Isn't it amazing the clarity that comes from a fantastic break from work?